Aunty Ngozi solves your problems

My Name is Ngozi, and my job is to reply to your agony letters. You have to be really crazy to take my advice, but hey, who am I to judge?
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After visiting him in Abuja, he has stopped calling as frequently
 

Anty NGozi,

gudmrn pls i has dis problem dat's bothering me,i hav ds guy,is workin,well paid,i met him around december 2010,he has b disturbin me on phone by calls and txt 2 visit him,so i made up my mine 2 visit him at abuja i spent 1gud wk wit him we live like couple.but unfortunately he ask me 2 use my money 2 come dat he wil give me back ok.a day b4 i was leavin he gave me only transport wit out dat initial money.pls i luv ds guy and everytin abt him.i want 2 knw whether ds guy love me d way i do.but 4 d calls n't often as b4.is n't married or he is examinin me.

Augusta meju.


My reply

Dear Augusta,


Me I no know o! I fit tell you say make you give him small time, but that one be say I dey decieve una. The way me I see am, the man don chop weting him want chop, and he chop am belle full sef - one whole week no be joke.


You talk say when him see you finish, na only transport money to go back without the one wey you take go meet am him give you? Shoo? And you no scatter him house?  


You come talk say he don tey wey him dey hammer you text meesage and  phone call, but as of now, him no dey call you again like before? It can be that his phone is having network problems, or it can be that he is fasting so he didn't want to be talking to woman too much. You know say lent season just finish?  


It also fit be say, as he don spend plenty airtime to dey call you and text you before you 'gree for am, for him mind, network don chop the money wey him for give you be that.


Next time make you shine your eye well before you carry your own money go deposit yourself for man doormot.


Me I don talk my own.


Na me, Aunty Ngozi.

 




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