Dear Dydu, 

If I were you, I’d be worried that it’s taken him this long to want to make a video with me. I mean, what do those other women have that you don’t?

See, trying to come between a man and his porn is like… In fact, there’s nothing to compare it to. It’s simply not doable.

I sense some apprehension. So, to become a porn star or not? Let me put it this way: years from now, when you’re old and only still sexy on the inside, it might be nice to have something to remind you of when you were young and he didn’t need Viagra.

That said; remember my advice on men and their porn? Even if you make a thousand videos with him you can be sure he’s still searching the web for porn and he hasn’t thrown away his old stash; he’s only found a better place to hide them where you won’t find them.

Aunty Ngozi.