Aunty Ngozi please help me.
I met a girl a sometimes back through a mutual friend who hooked us up. Since then we have been to watch a movie together and I have taken her out several times and I’ve made my intentions known.
She is a really lovely lady who is my exact spec but the only problem is that she keeps turning me down without given me a valid excuse.
I later got frustrated and confronted her to tell me what is wrong with me and she said it is her not me. I asked her to explain what this means but she declined.
Her friend that introduced us said I should continue to take her out and show her a good time and that in time she would start to open up to me.
I asked her friend if she knows of any other guy on her case, maybe that is the reason she is hesitating but she said she has never had a boyfriend.
I later confronted her again and insisted that she gives me an answer whether yes or no and she said the same time that it is her, not me. This time I challenged her that since she hasn’t had a boyfriend before maybe she’s afraid of sex but she told me she is not a virgin.
Now I am beginning to suspect that she’s a lesbian and that is why she is just keeping me around to fulfil those things that a man can do for her like shower her with gifts while she is secretly keeping her lesbian lover.
Please advice me on what to do and whether to proceed or not.
Thank you ma.