Dear Aunty Ngozi,

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. 
She frequently fails to answer her phone when I call her late at night, she disappears from school all through the weekend and claims she was with her family even though I’ve learnt that she hasn’t been going home. And she gets very paranoid when I touch her phone. I am not about to read her messages but you should see the way she grabbed her phone from me one day scratching my fingers with her nails in the process.

And then of lately, sometimes when I call her I hear a man’s voice in the background but she either claims it’s the television or the radio.

Once when she told me she was going home I people came back and told me she was seen at a party in UI.  

She has also been spending a lot of money and I don’t know where she is getting it from. She now wears human hair attachment and carries Gucci bag even though I know her parents cannot afford such unnecessary luxuries for her.

Do you think she’s cheating on me or am I just being paranoid?

Frustrated student