Dear Auntie Ngozi, 

How you dey? I am writing to you about the pros and cons of dating Nigerian men.

As an Oyibo lady who has visited your fine country and seen many fine Naija men both there and abroad as well, I appreciate the beauty, strength, and fire of your stock. 

However, I have run into a lot of arrogant, controlling men who think they are the prince of a country that does not exist, or they are money chasing hustlers, and even one who was trying not to be gay by chasing ladies when it was really clear that he was interested in the machos instead.

With reports of domestic violence and infidelity being high in Nigeria, and so many sad women writing to you every week about their heartbreaks, is it worth the risk? What are the pros and cons? 

Thank you kindly for your sage advice, 

Auntie Madeline